Renee Babineau
Posted on: October 1, 2026
I met you when we were both patients in the hospital. I had only been there a few days when our paths crossed, but I will always be grateful that they did.
For the next few months, while we were both in the hospital, we helped each other stay strong through some of the hardest days of our lives. I cherished our long conversations, especially those late-night talks when neither of us could sleep. One of us would text the other and ask, “Are you awake?” and most of the time, we both were. We would meet at the elevator, find somewhere to sit, and talk—sometimes for hours.
I honestly don't know if I could have made it through being in the hospital for so long without you. We talked about our lives—the good and the bad—as though we had been friends for years. We shared stories, laughed, listened, and talked endlessly about our children and grandchildren. Like me, you loved your children with all your heart, and it was so clear how incredibly proud you were of them.
I was so happy when, after almost two months, we were finally able to go home. But as happy as I was to leave the hospital, I truly missed those late-night talks with you. We continued to talk after we were discharged, and we always talked about getting together outside of the hospital. Sadly, we never got the chance.
You may have only been in my life for a short time, but the impact you made on my life will stay with me forever.
Life had not been fair to you for a very long time, and not just because of the illness you were facing. Yet somehow, during one of the hardest chapters of my own life, you became an angel in mine. You gave me friendship, strength, laughter, comfort, and someone to talk to when I needed it most.
I wish we had been given more time. I wish we could have had those conversations outside the hospital, shared more laughs, and made the memories we talked about making.
I will always be grateful that our paths crossed, even if it was for far too short a time.
You will never be forgotten, and a piece of my heart will always remember the friend I found in you during one of the darkest times in my life.
Rest peacefully, my dear friend. You deserved so much more time.
Love always,
Renee ❤️